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Behind the Scene of a Relationship

It is observed recently that almost 80% of our young ones all over the world are all paired up. 20% are recorded to have a fairly- tale endings of their relationships whilst 80% of the pairing falls apart and if the young ones can be paired and also have experiences on relationships, then why do they grow up having failed homes? why is the rate of divorced couples growing? so, what  were their experiences? I thought that the experience in one failed relationship is a step or a lesson in another? Or do they still make such mistakes in the next relationship they move on to.



I was taught at school that before a software developer builds his software, he definitely has a conception as conception is seen a s the first stage in the computer software developer life cycle. Okay, let’s bring this two parallel but analogous story line into a single vein, before someone actually thinks that he/she should venture into a relationship with a partner, what are his conception?. Have they actually thought about the processes involved in sailing the ship with the person? 



Oh yes! We do believe that before a journey begins there was/is a goal we want to attain and that also relates to when someone ventures into a relationship, he/she definitely has a goal right? Some of this goal might include;

Marriage Goals

Intimacy Goals

Baby mama Goals

Betrayal Goals

Bank goals..etc


Hearts have been axed not just broken, suicides are in the increase because someone just gave in too much.  This behind the scenes doesn’t really look funny to me because I am a genuine lover of love and as such I will love to see the partners ending up perfectly. Don’t be in a relationship for selfish reasons; don’t lead someone on when you know that you aren’t emotionally attached with this somebody. If there is genuine love the society will be free from evil.

Dear youth moments readers what have your experience being with a partner who did not have the same goal as you whilst you were still in your previous relationship? Please do leave a comment.


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